Wednesday, October 14, 2009

- Moving on to the next phase of life -

the end.

xanier!

Monday, October 12, 2009

Day 42 - Goodbye.

Woke up at 5.30 am to put fireworks! And we woke everyone up! The last crazy thing we did before leaving Wuhan. It was exciting! This was the first time I played with such fireworks. You know those kind you see during national day?! The huge fireworks!



Lighting the fireworks!


After putting fireworks, we had Chee Cheong Fan for breakfast for our very last time.


Chee Cheong Fan Wife & Husband.


Wanted to take picture of the river which I ran at almost everyday but there was no time. It’s ok, it will always remember it in my heart.

Back at the hostel, we did some last minute packing and cleared the rubbish from our room.
At 9am, I bid Room 330 goodbye. =’(


My overflowing luggage.

Thank you very much Chong Sian for helping me carry my mega heavy luggage down! =D


Waiting for our bus to come.


Headed for the airport and waited for almost an hour before boarding the plane.


Wuhan Airport.


At Guangzhou airport, we waited for another 2 hours before taking our last plane home!!!


Last group photo at the boarding gate! Singaporeeeee!!!


Mr Erwinnn.


Mr Edyyy.


Another Camwhore Moment together =))


We arrived way ahead of schedule and once the plane landed, we clapped and some were with grinning faces while some were sad.

And finally, I took the first step into Changi Airport!!! Picked up my phone and gave my parents a call.

Soon after, I met up with them and as I walked out of the arrival gate, I saw a lot of families each waiting in anticipation for their child to walk out of that door.

My parents and brother came! Expected myself to tear but I didn’t. Guessed it’s because I was too happy and excited to be back in Singapore!

Once I walked out of the airport, I took a deep breath of the clean air and walked with ease not fearing that I would step on spits or holes on the floor.

Goodbye Wuhan.

I’m Home.


Reflection:

Unbelievable once again.

42 days away from home.

At this time when I am typing my final reflection, I am tearing. Don’t know why, but yes tears are welling up in my eyes.

I miss those days where I can have a hearty laugh when I’m too stressed out by assignments.

It wasn’t easy for me to take the first step out into a whole new expedition on my own 42 days ago.

Letting go of my teammates who had went through 30 trainings without me.

Leaving my family for 42 days.

Leaving my comfort zone to lead 42 days of my life with 20 strangers which now has became friends that I would keep close to my heart. And our trip leader Mr Loh who was also missing his wife dearly.

From my quote in day 10:
Henry Ford:

"Coming together is the Beginning, Keeping together is Progress, Working together is Success."

(We once started out as strangers, next to acquaintances, progressing on to buddies and now taking one big step out as consultants. I’m waiting for that day when I can proudly say that YOU have become my dearest friend, someone who has been through all with me.)

Now I can proudly say that today is the day that 20 of YOU have become my dearest friend, someone who has been through all with me. Thick and thin. Without you all, this trip would not be as fruitful and as memorable it is to me. I will keep these memories close to my heart.

If I didn’t sign up for this OIP as the 3rd batch, 21 of us would not have met each other. We would not have fostered this strong bond which I believe it will never ever break.

This trip first posed as a challenge to me to let go of my habitual lifestyle, my teammates, my cca, my family. But if I didn’t take up this challenge, I would not have fulfilled much of my dreams or do things which I will not have done it in Singapore.

It brought me out of my comfort zone but eventually it helped me to expand my perimeters of my comfort zone to an even larger area.

In the past, a 4 days camp was torturing enough for me to think of my family. But after this trip, camp is nothing. I have survived 1 and a ½ months all alone in a faraway country.

This trip was extremely fruitful as it taught me life lessons and lifeskills which could aid me in my future endeavours.

I would never forget what was taught during lectures, my personal experiences, friendships formed and many other things which I could not plainly write down in words.

21 Guns. 42 Days.

This journey has ended and today marks the end of it.
Remember to gather ourselves up and prepare for the next phase of life in less than a week.
This journey might have ended but this is just part and parcel of our life.
There is still more to come.

Move On.



Love,
Xanier

Sunday, October 11, 2009

Day 41 - Final Shopping.


Went to Grand Ocean for the very last time. This time me and Shun qing went together. We took the public bus from school. Left at around 10 plus so that we have sufficient time to buy all the necessary gifts for our family and friends. Last minute shopping is no fun at all. We were rushing through all the shops in search of suitable gifts. Our legs nearly broke ok! So after shopping, we took a cab back to school.


Had Chee Cheong Fan for dinner!!! Finally after not eating for almost 9 days because it was closed during golden week, we got to eat it for our last dinner!


After dinner, we wanted to fire fireworks at around 12am in the campus but was unsuccessful. Firstly, it was drizzling and secondly, we were actually not allowed to play fireworks within campus. So while we head back to our hostel, we surprised our october baby, CHIN KUANG!!! Celebrated his birthday with a cake in the open area and it was freezing cold. Took a group photo and headed back to turn in for the night.

Group Shot with Bday Boy! =))


Reflection:


Unbelievable. I couldn’t believe that this was my last dinner, this will be the last time I’m seeing this flight of steps up to our classroom. Last time last time…. Time really past too fast. Feels like there is still a week or so before heading back but no, tomorrow will be the day. I would be sleeping on my bed tomorrow night. I would not have anymore Chee Cheong Fan in future. The feeling was very weird. Mixed feeling I would say. Maybe I would feel more of it tomorrow when we are really heading back. Turned in for the night, and this will be the last time I’m sleeping on this bed.

xanier!
xanier!

Saturday, October 10, 2009

Day 40 - Shopping around Yellow Crane Tower.


So today, we met early and head out to the area around Yellow Crane Tower for lunch and shopping while others went to Grand Ocean.


The street that we shopped on was called Wuchang’s 解放路. We were introduced to this place as part of the tourist shopping belt. Decided to head down and take a look at it.


After reaching, we had lunch at 首义园小吃街.

Previously when we first came here, we only had less than an hour to try the food. But this time, we had plenty of time to slowly take our lunch.

xiao long baos again~


Straight after lunch, we headed to the shopping area. But to my dissapointment, there was only a handful of shops which does not even suit us. The transportation fee was quite expensive thus some of us was quite sad that it was not as what we expected.


But still we didn’t give up. Decided to go in search of better shopping streets. Thus, we walked around and navigated our way from one street to another. And YES! We found a whole stretch of shopping stores.


Due to the farewell dinner at 6pm, we had to end our shopping at around 4.30pm so we had sufficient time to travel back to school. This time, we took another van which brought us to the wrong campus and they seriously didn’t know where they were heading to. We were quite worried. Luckily he manage to find his way back and we were just in time for the farewell dinner.
Our farewell dinner was side by side with the wedding banquet. So it was quite weird.

Farewell dinner with wedding beside us.

Photo with Dr Tan! =D


Reflection:


During the farewell dinner, the China student leaders gave us a copy of our group photo with best wishes written to us. Was quite surprised that they actually prepared a group gift for us. On our side, we also gave Singapore souvenirs to each of the student leaders to express our appreciation for their hard work. After dinner, another China student leader Liu Li came down specially to give me a small gift. Was quite touched. Through this, I can see that friends to them are very valuable. They will not hold back when showing care and concern to friends. Unlike singapore teenagers who are less mature, a little action such as a simple hug could lead to immature fiery comments and so because of this, we seldom show affection to our friends and would not open up as easily to strangers. This is one thing which we can learn from them. The way they treat people.

xanier!

Friday, October 9, 2009

Day 39 - Assignment 3 Presentation


Today’s presentation was challenging. Due to the different culture and style of presenting in the different courses, our presentation method was not accepted by Mr Loh. We were not able to give him what he wanted at the first try.

Went back to our seats, discussed what we were going to say and we went for the 2nd time. This time, Mr loh said that it was better than the 1st one.

But still I don’t think it was up to our standard. The last assignment did not really end off on a good note.


But still at the end of the lessons, I was so EXCITED!!! Because finally everything was OVERRR!
Went back to our hostel to work on a little bit more of our assignment 3 report and my group went out for our very first group dinner!!!

My 3 musketeers.

Ming Yu, Erwin, Alvin!

Alvin.

The restaurant.

Our dishes!

This was one of the best meals I ever had in Wuhan. The dishes were delicioussss =)


Reflection:


In a blink of an eye, it was already the last presentation for us and less than a week, we will be heading back for Singapore. I could see that all of us felt a sense of relieve at the end of the presentation. We have given all our effort and went through sleepness nights to complete all our assignments. Be it good or bad, we have finally completed this module. And finally it was time for us to go CRAZYYYYYY!!! =D now we are only left with the blogging and final report to be done and we are officially free of workload! =))


As what I had said, today’s presentation indeed posed as a challenge to me and my group mates. We were stunned by how Mr Loh commented on us and somewhat felt lost and didn’t know what was the required criteria etc. I don’t deny that we did not have sufficient preparation the day before, thus such quality work was given.

We were giving more than was needed. Quality but not quantity. This is what we learnt today. For future projects, I would keep this in mind and make sure that sufficient preparation is done before any presentation.


Today was a good lesson learnt.

xanier!

Thursday, October 8, 2009

Day 38 - 老鼠街

After knowing that presentation was cancelled today, everyone went crazy! Everyone was rushing to the toilet to get ready for our shopping spree again, but this time at a new street. Went out at around 12 plus and off we go.


After reaching, we entered this shopping mall “chicony” which is a total replica of our Takashimaya/Paragon.

Chicony.

Doesn't this look like Taka?

Went to the basement for lunch at ‘Ajisen Ramen’ which costed only half the price of Singapore’s.

My spicy beef noodles.


After filling up our tummies, we went out of the shopping mall to look for cheap items. Walked on for quite long and it was all IT stuffs. The whole area was like 4 Sim Lim Squares surrounding you. Tried to find the small street that our driver said that there was plenty of clothings and yes after walking for quite some time, we found the street.

Shopped for awhile before heading for our dinner at KFC! Tried their egg tarts =D

Delicious but OILY Egg Tart!

My burger for the day~


Headed for ‘mouse’street (老鼠街) after that.


Cabbed back to our hostel and turned in for the night =))


Reflections:


After 38 days in Wuhan, we are left with only 3 days before heading back for Singapore. And so, we are trying to cover all major shopping areas in Wuhan. Without the supervision and advice from our parents, most of us seemed to be spending not within our means which includes buying unnecessary stuffs just because it is cheap. Some of them have started to withdraw excess money because they have spent more than their actual savings. In the past, we were all too reliant on our parents to help manage our finances. And spending was not a problem because whenever we need money, we just have to reach out to them. After leaving alone for quite some time, managing my own finances has became part of my daily life. Before buying any thing, consider if it is an impulse buy or you really like that item. I have picked up many life skills unknowingly through my daily life. And this would definitely make me a better person in time to come.

xanier!

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Day 37 - FLEXSIM

All of us stayed in to complete our assignment 3 which was super torturing to us. Because flexsim is so difficult! Had to come up with the model and prepare our presentation the very next day.

Woke up early in the morning to freshen myself up. Had breakfast and off I start on assignment 3.

You could see people running up and down the corridor of our hostel trying to get help and asking each other how to go about doing it. Everyone was so stressed up and finally MR LOH TO THE RESCUE! Haha! Some of them contacted him and asked if he could come down and help us with the assignment.

Thank you Mr Loh! =)

At around noon time, I went down to the bakery shop to grab some bread and a corn for lunch. Most of the shops were still closed due to the golden week.

Back in our rooms, some of the guys who had already completed their flexsim model came over to lend us a helping hand. I must confess that guys are way better in this kind of software compared to girls. Most of us were cracking our heads but still nothing came out.

And so thanks to the guys who helped, we were able to get a solution at around 6.30pm! YEAAA!!! FINALLY!!!

Some of the guys went to grand ocean for dinner and shopping while I stayed back in the hostel to finish up the report and presentation materials so that we have more time for ourselves tomorrow. Had corn and bread for dinner again =))

Worked on the report for sometime and decided to stop for the day. Took a breather by having a nice laughing session with some of my group mates! =)))

Reflection:

Without the help of my friends, I believe I wouldn’t have been able to get a solution so quickly. In our school life, we are still able to depend on our friends to help us through our school work etc. But come to think of it, when we are out in the working life, it is almost impossible for us to depend on our colleagues to help us through our work and to help us get promotions etc. At this age of 18, we must slowly start to grow up and mature through every learning process. Once you are out in the working world, there are tons of different variety of people which you would meet. That is where interrelationship skills comes in. In the working industry, everything speaks of realisticity. No one would help you like how your classmates do. As we grow older, our thinkings mature and of course inevitably, we think a lot before we decide whether to lend a helping hand. You think of the benefits and disadvantages before helping. Thus, appreciate school life & friends now before reality hits you soon.

xanier!